"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."

Monday, October 11, 2010

Wishing the days away

Today's a sad day.  Well, the past few days really.  I've come to accept the infertility comes with a lot of those days.  Lately I can't stop thinking about my miscarriage.  I think of that little heartbeat, and I think of how far along I should be...and I get so sad.  I wonder if we'll ever know that joy or that excitement again.  I think it's all been rekindled since everyone I know is pregnant...everyone but me, that is.
On Friday, one of my coworkers said to me that she was talking to another coworker and they have a feeling that someone is pregnant.  Well, you can imagine where that went.  They think it's me.  I politely said, "Nope, not me."  Then I wanted to puke.  And scream.  And cry.  Funny thing is, I don't think she believed me.  
I've been looking forward to tomorrow, though, since we have our CCRM consult.  I'm a little nervous about the whole phone consult concept, but I'm sure it's a regular occurrence for them.  I also officially stopped my BC pills over the weekend, and I have my baseline u/s this Friday.  But, really, I have to get through one of the biggest tests of my career one week from today before I can fully turn my focus back to infertility.  So many countdowns going on in my mind- it's hard to focus on any one thing.  I'm just glad I'm finally getting closer to each one of them.      

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